I know I've always believed I would settle 4 less when it comes to a future hubby, but I also have some secret fantasies buried deep within. So, here's my letter to you;
Dear Future Hubby,
How are you? I hope you're good. How is my future mother in law, hope she's real nice. And my future father in law? I hope he's charming. How are my future brothers & sisters in law (if I have any)? I sincerely hope they're sweet.
So, to the main point:
I just want to tell you the qualities I want in my man before we meet, so you can work on yourself.
I don't need to say you have to be good looking, cause you must be before I give you attention! You must have a good dress sense, must be well kempt, must be smart. You must be caring, trusting, understanding and honest.
Oh!, and please you need to have a well paying job. You don't have to be rich, but I love comfort!
I like tall, but I can manage average with a clean complexion.
You shouldn't be too proud nor should you be too humble, just stand out.
You should be able to read me, understand me, and live with me.
You have to be prepared to live with just me as I am to live with you. No extended family meddling with our lives. Sure they can come visiting, but I want to be able to make decisions with my husband without consulting our families. Well, that's by the way. You have to be kind at heart and faithful. Yes! I've made some mistakes in recent times, but you must not use them against me. You also have to be willing to help me in the house. You have to be willing to accept me for who I am. I love my man giving orders and I want you to have a firm grip on me (I can be very naughty), but that don't mean you should maltreat me or take me for granted. You also need to know how to respect a woman; you have to respect me, my opinions, my body, and my religion. You have to love me thoroughly. Darling, I just want to feel loved by you, and know you don't just want me sexually. You should also want me for me! I also don't want to be regarded as your baby mama. We'll have our babies, but they should be considered as the product of our love.
My future hubby, you have to be good in bed o (one of us has to be) to avoid quarrels. You also need to know how to cook (for when I'm a lil down, or when I'm heavy with our child), or @least be willing to learn a lil. I won't stop you from going out, or coming back late as long as you come back home to my food and my body. Yes baby! No eating outside our home for you...
So, I've told you the physical and emotional attributes I want in my man. Now it's my turn 2 tell you my attributes. I'm dark complexioned, of average height, slender, and with plenty flaws. I'm also very loving, caring, attentive, faithful, and honest. I hope I meet your criteria of a wife, and lover.